“Fashion is as profound and critical a part of the social life of man as sex and is made up of the same ambilevnt mixture of irrestable urges and inevitable tatoos “Renee Roning.

Intersting. Hopefully its true ,if all i takes to have people here is for them to regard fashion as important as sex then so be it, because i needed everyone to be sitted in the now five hundred empty chairs.

Today is the glory day , the day i show the world what i make and proud of  in two hours time , the curtains would unveil and the floor mine to put marvelous a word among others that will be.

In every situation we are in as human beings we tend to feel emotions , those things that more often than not neccessary in our lives. I am feeling nervous , expectant like crossing a rope bridge .

The fruits of my resiliency was going to pay




Anal sex or anal intercourse is the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person’s ass for sexual pleasure.

Other forms of anal intercourse include fingering,pegging,use of sex toys for anal penetration i.e. butt plug.


You don’t make love to an ass you fuck it.


Ass sex it’s the mental/energetic thrill and general lamelessness of it.

Big agreement that it is compliance not comfort that is involved with getting a woman’s ass.

The best position is spooning. Women feel vulnerable taken from doggie; the spoon makes them feel safe and protected.

Ass fucking is a form of fucking not making love.

It’s a power move simply, not a romantic beach picnic.

A huge part of the huge assgasms for women has nothing to do with her physiology it’s her primary physiology, she is relenting to a force superior to herself.



Ass fucking code: If you can’t take your own dick up your ass you have no business putting it in anyone else’s, take it up the ass see how it feels you fucking pussy!

  • You have to believe in yourself, you can take a huge dick up your ass.
  • Fuck the ass, ride that cock up and down like a possessed woman and forget love just fuck it.

Ass fucking sex is for connoisseurs.

Ass fucking is the truth.

Ass fucking is trust.

  • A cunt or prick can lie but an anus cannot.You can groan, shout and arch your back to a fake orgasm but you can’t tell your anus to respond.
  • A cunt can take a prick in fear but an ass can only take a prick it trust without the (fear) risking permanent damage.DSC00540



1.For heterosexual male ’It will make me gay’>FALSE,No action, thought, speech or image can ‘make’ you gay. Homosexuality is a personal orientation and sexual preference and no matter what you use and where you use it, it can’t change your love for women.In fact, anal sex toys for men have never been more popular on the adult market than they are now- and a LOT of heterosexual men are buying them. Just like having anal sex with a female partner doesn’t make either of you gay, playing with anal toys either handheld or in a harness in your partner doesn’t change your preference or who you are with.

2.’It will always hurt’ FALSE ,Just as vaginal sex can be painful and uncomfortable for both partners if not turned on,good anal sex comes from those who do their homework.The butt doesn’t make its own lubrication like the vagina.A good lubricate is 100% NECESSARY EVERY TIME.Both the inside and outside of the ass should be lubricated as well as the surface length of the toy,finger or penis to be inserted.Water based lubes are the best, while oil based ones when used with condoms clog the pores on the delicate skin of the anus and are hard to wash off.

3’If it hurts I should just use numbing cream ”FALSE, Numbing cream or desensitizing creams like anal ease are VERY DANGEROUS. The cream themselves wont probably hurt the surface of the skin, but they are dangerous because you won’t be able to tell what’s going on.You need to know how your body is reacting, and if you need more lubrication.



1.Clean up- before trying anal sex rinses the outside of the anus with a mild soap,use warm not hot enema with a proper enema kit.(Enema>is the injection of liquid through the anus to motivate evacuation).

2.Get a towel or two and lay it under where you’ll be lying to prevent getting lubricant on.Put some baby wipes and trash bag for clean up immediately.

  1. Finger cots, condoms for going over body parts or sex toysand latex gloves are great to have handy.If you’re going to using the fingers,clip all the fingernails VERY SHORT AND FILE the edges to ensure they’re smooth with no ragged edges.

4.Lubricant is SUPER IMPORTANT each and every time. To make things easy,pick a brand with a pump top you can operate with the side of the wrist for when your hands are gloved. Maximus is an excellent water based lubricant with a pump.

4.GO SLOW you and your partner should be both relaxed and VERY turned on. Start with lots of foreplay, rimming and fingering the ass as you warm up the lube while applying it.

5.ANY toy that is going into the ass needs to have a flared base to avoid it being swallowed or ‘vanishing’ into the butt and needing the doctor’s assistance to retrieve it.

  1. Females do not have a PROSTRATE only MEN do. Many women however enjoy anal stimulation.


There are a number of health risks with anal sex and anal intercourse is the riskiest form of sexual activity for the following reasons.

1.    The anus lacks the natural lubrication the vagina has; penetration can tear the insides of the anus allowing bacteria and viruses to enter the bloodstream.Studies have suggested that anal exposure poses 30 times more risk to the receptive partner than vaginal exposure.

2.    The tissue inside the anus is not as well protected as the skin outside the anus having it vulnerable to tearing and spread infection.

3.    The anus was designed to hold in feces. The anus is surrounded with a ring like muscle called the anal sphincter which tightens after which we defecate. Repetitive anal sex may lead to the weakeing of anal sphincter making it difficult to hold in feces until you can get to the toilet. However, kegel exercise to strengthen the sphincter may help prevent this problem or correct it.

4.    The anus is full of bacteria_ even of both partners do not have sexually transmitted diseases; bacteria normally in the anus can potentially infect the giving partner. Practicing vaginal sex after anal sex can lead to vaginal and urinary tract infection.asss

The Fashion Traps

For those who are head over heels about fashion, you may have stumbled across a fashion trend which you may have thought was a joke. It is likely that you just went with it when an actual fact it was just a fashion trap. Time to time, we may have seen a new collection and needed to slip a pair of rose tinted glasses because you just could not understand why someone would have created such monstrous pieces. Being the gatekeepers of fashion, top designers and stylists can pretty much get away with anything, right? If something looks unpractical, they can justify their looks with connotations to art or a deep philosophy. Just look up “Marc Jacobs shrink wrap” on google for example.

Here are the top 5 emerging fashion trends not to slip into:

#1 Platforms
When making mistakes, humans are creatures that never seem to learn from them. Case in point, the platform shoe. A trend which makes an appearance approximately every 20 years, has everyone breathing a sigh of relief when it departs. Despite vowing to never wear another hideous pair again, us humans only have a 20 year memory span which may be the reason why every fashion conscious person has been eyeing up a pair of high rise shoes. A tip I would suggest is to purchase a pair this season and keep them for 20 years. When the next platform wave hits, sell them on e-bay claiming them as vintage and make a mint. With wedge heels standing the test of recent times, stick to them as they prove more elegant than the chunky platform.

#2 Patterned Pants
There is nothing wrong with patterned pants, with tops commonly upstaging the garment leaving it seen in safe colours and patterns. Why not experiment with them a little bit and make them stand out for a change? As it is a bold statement, it can be a hard look to pull off which is why I believe many should avoid this trend. From observing street and cat walks I can only see them as pajama bottoms, which makes me question whether pants were ever destined to stand out, with every attempt in doing so causing people to forever look back in shame.

#3 Crop Top
Being a child during the nineties (this is showing my age), I am sceptical of any trends from the nineties that are coming back into fashion, (as seen by the platform shoe). The crop top is another trend, last seen in the nineties that should not be supported. Unfortunately I cannot give you a convincing justification as to why the crop top should be given the chop apart from that I don’t think that it looks nice. Call me a prude but I am just not comfortable seeing people’s midriff’s let alone showing mine in public. Although this time, the crop top has been put together with high waisted pant which avoids showing off your old belly button piercing. Nevertheless it still has me predicting that it will become a fashion crime in the next few seasons.

#4 Wide Leg
I am having second doubts about the popularity of the wide leg. Although skin tight jeans have had their day, the wide leg pant remind me of another nineties comeback which makes me want to shut my eyes. Although the pants are fantastic for pear or hour glassed bodies, I am visualising the development of this style to become exaggerated and turn into 70s flares which lets face it, were terrible in the rain and would absorb water all the way to your knee.

#5 Double Denim
This one has be scratching my head as this was always a universal fashion no-no. This will no doubt be the trend to absolutely stay away from this season, hands down. See this as a warning to stop you from clothing regret. I have always been told that this should never carried out and unless it is fashion gate-keepers playing tricks on us, I cannot understand why celebrities have been smiling gracefully for magazine publications in their double even triple denim glory. It just baffles me.

Moral of this article is that despite your love for fashion, try to not fall for every trend that comes along. If a new style trend arrives, add a bit of your personal critique to see if it really matches your style before believing in the hype.

With Pride

In my days as an african woman i have come to cherish the liberty at which one gets there confidence. A rare thing it is to see a woman so confident, strong not intimidating . As i walk in the busy Nairobi  streets i amaze at the beauty in the african woman  , and as a staunch sister nice encode more on how they can acquire confidence.

While growing up and going through awkward teenage moments  i used to cower at the thought of myself walking proudly with my head held high , looking elegant and receiving pleasantries . Being a teenager is confusing and transforming experience that preceeds maturity , it was during that time that i learned an important lesson. My mum loves it when one is proud and rocking beautifully what one has and on that day she said “tembea kwa maringo” walk with pride.

Pride is the feeling of satisfaction when you possess something good , something great.To be with pride is to be with a good health, you have to take care that it is just for the good of the body . A woman having pride is gorgeous , that one can in their nature be themselves and feel good about it. What i drive to say is from  good pride comes great confidence , and from great creates a greater you.

Every woman has that look , that outfit that smothers her curves and beholds her beauty , take that look own it , be comfortable , satisfied , be of pride and walk with confidence. Its a true path of which one must brave to walk to feel and be in touch with our true selves .


1.Color is everything seen by the eye and the strongest single influense affecting our lives.

2.The person who has learned the rules of color combination has , in the process learned how these rules may be broken effectively without discord.

3. More people are now shopping intelligently for clothes which are becoming in color and suitable in design, rather than fashion right.

4.There is always a degree of uncertainty regarding the becomingness of any new color , even when they are sponsored by leading couturiers.

5.Color is becoming when it helps the skin appear clean and healthy.

Color is beautiful , natural and best of all you need to look good in color is inspirtion from the world around you. Gooo! color.